Inside Our Relationship with PTSD and Schizoaffective Disorder


Today’s blog post is a link back to my guest blog post on Betty’s Battleground! I am really proud of this guest blog post. It is part of a guest post series on those who live, love, and work with the mentally ill. It’s specifically about being in a relationship with someone who has PTSD and how that interacts with my schizoaffective disorder. Here is an excerpt:

Misconceptions of PTSD

When I thought of PTSD before I met my boyfriend, I pictured an angry man choking his partner in her sleep. I saw fits of rage. I thought of dramatic scenes in movies after a soldier has come home from war. But this is not what PTSD is like in my relationship. It is much more subtle, slithering its way around me and my partner like a deadly snake. It is a quiet and eerie feeling that develops like a brick wall between me and him until he becomes unreachable.

In the beginning, it was the small but constant anxiety he gave off every night when we were getting into bed to go to sleep. He seemed to be scared of me. I am half his weight. What did I do? What could I do? We’d only been together six months.

Was he already sick of me?

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August is the founder of Survival is a Talent. She is a freelance writer, blogger, and student. She studies creative writing, specializing in poetry and creative nonfiction. She loves sweets and warm weather. You can connect with her on LinkedInTwitterInstagram, and Facebook.


2 thoughts on “Inside Our Relationship with PTSD and Schizoaffective Disorder

  1. That picture of you two is adorable! There’s another adorable one on the post for anyone who’s reading this 😉
    Seriously now, thank you so much for writing this piece and honoring my blog with its first publication. You really are an incredible writer with an important perspective to share. I could relate to your post in many ways (my husband, who also has PTSD, and I have those nihilism days too), and was introduced to new knowledge in many other ways. It’s a graceful, beautifully written post. I keep saying that everywhere…because it’s really true. Thank you. And thank you for linking to my blog.
    I hope that your migraine resolves and that you feel better soon so that you can enjoy these exciting new changes in your life! Congratulations!

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